Advice to sell my Chino Hills Home

Your “Saavy Negotiating” May Cost You Your Dream Home

Most buyers have an idea of what their dream home might look like and the price range that they would be comfortable in more or less. This is a wonderful start to the home buying process. With a pre-approval letter in hand, you set out to find your Realtor to find just the right home. Once you find the home that you wish to put an offer in on, it becomes imperative that you remember that if you have hired a competent Realtor that you trust, then listen to their advice. Unless you are a full time investor, it is most likely that your Realtor has negotiated far more contracts on homes than you have.

Realizing that as a buyer you have certain ideas on what price and terms you would like to ask for, it is in your best interest to heed the advice of your Realtor when it boils down to the “nitty-gritty” of the negotiations. If you find yourself in the midst of Counter Offers where your offer was not accepted at face value and they have proposed a different set of terms, conditions, etc. remember that you must decide what your must haves are versus the non-consequential issues. Sometimes buyers get caught up in “the gotta win” syndrome and lose sight of the bigger picture. When this happens, the buyers “saavy negotiating” may cost you your dream home. Why? Because believe it or not, buyers and sellers alike often lose their objectivity and begin negotiating off of emotion instead of sound, prudent facts.

For example, I recently dealt with buyers who after a year of searching for their perfect dream home locate a home in pristine condition that was well within their price range. After days worth of mulling over whether to submit an offer and then numerous days of offers and counter offers the seller agreed to almost everything that the buyer wanted. There was still some negotiation on the purchase price. In the end the buyer actually wanted to negotiate a lower price on the house over a difference of a $20.00 a month payment. No matter how much counsel this buyer received from the lender or myself, they became stuck like glue to this $20.00 a month. Seriously! Well you can guess what happened to that dream house, can’t you?

This “saavy negotiator” shot his own self in the foot. Do yourself a favor, hire a competent Realtor and then LISTEN! Don’t get in your own way of success.

Disclaimer- All information contained herein is deemed reliable but not guaranteed. You are advised to consult a reputable attorney for all legal advice or a reputable tax advisor.

Mr. Home Seller, let’s have a heart to heart. It’s interesting because just two days ago, I wrote a blog entitled, Home Over Pricing Will Cost You Greatly! As I was out today canvassing a neighborhood regarding a new listing, a gentleman stopped me. He asked me if I had placed the postcard he was holding on his door. I told him yes. He then asked me what homes around the area were selling for. At this point I told him it depends on the home and offered to do a full market analysis on is home for free. He stated that he did not want it. He then said but what are they worth? I asked him the square footage approximately of his home and then after explaining that a value is based on many variables, I gave him the ball park range.

At this point, much to my surprise, he yelled at me, “Get Out of Here!” You don’t know my neighborhood! You come mad manover here trying to tell me that price, you just get out of here! Now, I was totally astonished.

While I understand that we are all a little dismayed by current property values (or lack thereof), my response to him was, “I do not make the market, I just have to tell you what it is.” Here lies the problem with the housing market (well, okay one of the problems). The pervasive denial on what a home is really valued at. For goodness sake, I do realize that when a personal home is purchased it harbors with it a multitude of emotions. Memories are also created and home owners are reluctant to let go. That’s fine, that’s the emotional side of homeownership. Trust me, I am a sap for it too.

Now bear with me as we delve into the practical business side. You know, the side that’s all about dollars, cents, and assets. This is the critical point where we place those pretty little emotions in a box, put a lid on it and look at hardcore numbers. Trust me, when I tell a homeowner that they are sitting on a depreciating asset, I don’t get a kick out of it. My role is to educate a homeowner on the true value of their asset. I realize that this does not always make people happy. My role is not to make you happy, it is to tell you the truth and truthfully advise you on your options based on your stated goals.

So the next time the emotional value of your home does not coincide with the true market value of your home, don’t shoot the messenger. Be glad that they were honest enough to educate you on the true market value so that you can make the decisions that would be in your best interest. Whether the best decision if for you to attempt a loan modification, short sale or even have to let it lapse into foreclosure, you can not take control of your own destiny if you refuse to look truth square in the eye. Don’t Shoot The Messenger, Just Accept Reality And Make Some Wise Decisons.

Disclaimer-All information contained herein is deemed reliable but not guaranteed. You are advised to consult a reputable attorney for all legal advice or a reputable tax advisor.